Sabtu, 26 Desember 2015



 TEACH OF LOVE
 by : I Gede Karsa

How to face death with a smile

          For some people, death is a scary thing because it would end their life of bliss. While for others, death is the end of suffering life. Although different views, one of the things we believe to be, death will occur in all living things. Perspective and our preparation for death that is actually more important because it will determine how we live.

          At least there are three kinds of people in looking at the issue of death. First, the hedonic view death as the base of the termination of all forms of worldly pleasures so that they tend to use their lives to dissipate. Secondly, the secularists who consider death as the end of life, but there must be "legacy" given that their names remembered. This group, although it does not believe in the afterlife, they keep trying to give meaning to his life by doing great things that can be felt by others. Third, the religious judge death is only the door into the real life in the hereafter. The group is trying to do the best in their lives because they believe that the world is a "field" to achieve a good life hereafter. In addition, they act in the world will be held accountable in the hereafter.

          From the perspective of three ways, according to Immanuel Kant, the latter view is most appropriate. Kant argues, moral life would not be meaningful if there is no definite metaphysical basis. The bases include, first, the belief that every person has the freedom to make his choice in otonom.Kedua, the immortality of life after death. Third, God will hold hereafter court thoroughly and fairly. Kant added, how painful and legal chaos and drama of life if it turns out the ultimate fate of everyone is the same. Between the oppressor and the oppressed, between the fighters and the traitors, the criminals and the enforcement of justice. (pp. 84-86)

          Convinced death as the path to eternal life is one way that humans are always motivated to do good wherever he is. With believes the reply after death, people become more responsible and careful in acting. That way, people can find a noble purpose in life, not only for wealth and glory in the world, but also in the hereafter





Love & Affection


          Who does not know what love is? It is hard to define love, but feel it, all must have. Is it the love of parents, love of a lover, friend, and so on. Love, language is so beautiful. Almost all
people in this world definitely crave sincere and true love in his life. Especially young people, unceasingly seek and keep on seeking love. Well sedharma people, love is synonymous with affection. Where there is love, there certainly no affection. Someone who loves surely be loved. Recently we celebrate Valentine's Day or the day of love. On that day many people are willing to exchange their money to get the goods to be supplied to the people they love and care about. There were giving chocolates, dolls, rings, necklaces, flowers ----- bank interest, and so on. Sometimes not matter how much money is wasted time. The point is important we are happy, we are also happy couple.

          That is the phenomenon of love that we can observe in this era. That madness of love. Because they say, love is blind (love is blind), regardless age (too many elderly people who fall in love), regardless of status (although already wife / husband but still make love), regardless of rich or poor. Because if you've fallen in love, the world is like heaven. The term if love already
attached, tai cat chocolate flavor. Once the enormity of the power of love to be uniting of two people in different times, places and circumstances. If the world isfilled with people who fall in love, then there must be peace everywhere. Because people who are in love is said to be always smiling all day because happy. People were overcome with love, it would seem always
happily without problems. That is why the world was smiling at people lovestruck.

          On the contrary, without love life would feel empty. World without love like hell. Life without love must suffer. Imagine if in this world there is no such thing as love, what will happen? Love is not just a affection between lovers, couple or love between mother and child. But love is a universal affection that can be given to anyone only. Not limited to human beings, as well as animals and plants, but also to God (Sang Hyang Widhi). Thus the real the nature of love it.

          But in today seems to love of neighbor started fading. We found it difficult to get love and genuine affection and it is, love today definitely because there ass. Well, warning
day Valentine's Day (Valentine) would be a proof that how the real world wants peace in life. Every human should always love one another, love, and love each other. As the concept of Tat Tvam Asi (it / he is you) then Hindus also strongly advocated peace in the whole community. This teaching is reminiscent man to stop looking at that outside him are others, but instead everyone should see that others also are themselves own. In line with the teachings of Tat Tvam Asi, the concept Wasudaiwa Kuthumbakham (We are all brothers), even we in North Sulawesi no term Torang Samua Basudara, raw-material-bae raw deng raw honey, is a concept
ethics that emphasizes the importance of brotherhood and love among fellow
human.

          Awareness to live in harmony against his fellow creatures, should have been invested since the first, through the teachings of the Tat Tvam Asi invites all mankind to always live in harmony, a relationship which good to fellow beings and the universe. Do good to others,
means doing good to yourself. And vice versa, behave badly to others is to harm oneself. Therefore, as Hindus we practice the teachings derived Ida Sang Hyang this Widhi for
achieving a lasting peace in this world and in the hereafter. 146 sloka Sarasamuccaya scriptures expressly teach; "Because nothing is more important than the meaning of life, life is only valuable in the third world and therefore one should show love his (as) loved his own life, so should love love someone against someone else ". So it was that life is filled compassion for others, and the universe.

          In a well known Hindu teachings that emphasize the Tri Hita Karana harmonious relations in human life. Tri Hita Karana means three the cause of harmony. The first is Parahyangan is relationship harmony between man and God. The second is the relationship Pawongan
the harmony between man and his fellow man. And the third Palemahan is a harmonious relationship between man and nature environment. The teachings of Tri Hita Karana is certainly an important basis and principal that must be implemented by every human being in the world.

          The concept of teaching provides an overview of how human beings should have a relationship with God and contents of the universe, including humans. The harmonious relationship of course, can be achieved when we all love each other and love. This is the true nature of love sedharma people. Therefore starting from Instill now the seeds of love in our hearts. Flush and cultivate a the seeds of love that has grown within us. And let love it continues to grow and develop for our lovers, parents, friends, whole beings in this universe especially to God Almighty.
           
          New commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; Just as I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. (John 13:34)










A Grandmother's Love To Her granddaughter

          In a daytime looks a grandmother repeatedly pressing a rice cooker, rice cooker but it still will not turn on. The grandmother then waddled from the kitchen to his room. In the room, directly grandmother smoothed his hair whitened and change clothes.

          After all the buttons are all set, the grandmother back open again. It turns out the buttons are not installed in the order, so sometimes the clothes are left to be higher than the right. Or buttons on the right beyond the second order from the left. Grandmother even had to repeat it several times until the sweating, the new end all be buttoned neatly in order. After the grandmother walked out of the room.

          Currently, through the living room grandmother, granddaughter who was 16 years old was watching TV. Amazed seeing his grandmother dressed, then asked, "Grandma's going where, instead of the earlier grandmother would cook in the kitchen?" Grandma went on to explain that he was indeed willing to cook, but somehow rice cookernya would not start, and now grandmother going out for a while to buy food ,

          Fretfully, grandson asked that the grandmother to go home because he was getting hungry. "Yes, grandma will quickly return. You wait a minute grandmother yes ... "her grandmother said with a smile, not a frown that his grandson's face again. Grandma walked out of the house, waiting for a bus passing by, then a bus ride to the center of food sales.

          Moments after the grandmother left the house, his grandson walked into the kitchen looking for a snack to just block the stomach. He accidentally saw plugs (plug) rice cooker that has not been plugged. Granddaughter smiled amused attitude forgetful grandmother as the person who has senile wrote.

          Arriving at the center of food sales, grandmother bought her granddaughter's favorite chicken rice. When finished paying and going home, step grandmother suddenly stopped exactly at the exit. His head turned to the left and to the right, her eyes dilated, his expression changed looks of confusion. All of the buildings and the streets in front of him look different and foreign. Grandma paused for a moment in silence. And finally realized that he forgot the direction of the way home.
          Then swiftly, grandmother waving his hand as he walked up to a young man passing in front of him. Asked for help from the young man to want to take it home. "Nak..nak .. please deliver grandmother's home ..." said the grandmother. "Sorry, Grandma. I'm in a hurry. "Reject the young man.

          Then the grandmother approached a middle-aged woman. Together with the young man, this woman can not deliver grandma go home because it will pick up her children. Grandma did not despair. This time he walked swiftly toward a gentlemen to ask for help. "Sir, sir ... please take me home. My grandson was waiting for me to come home with food. He must be hungry now. "Said the grandmother with the face looks sad.

          "Grandma's House where, let me across." Replied the father. "Um ... mmh ... I ... I do not remember where." The grandmother said with a stammer. "But please take me home, sir. Anyway just escorted me home. "Grandmother still begging. This man can not help because the grandmother was senile and did not remember where his house. Grandmother's eyes looked glazed, tears almost fell cheeks.

          Grandmother repeatedly kept asking for help to everyone he met to be delivered home. There were refused and some are willing to help ... but anyone who wants to help it still can not deliver nenk. Grandmother's face looked very sad. Grandmother unwittingly tears running down his cheeks. Remembering his grandson hunger, waiting for him to come home with food.

          Grandma continue walking while asking for help, and occasionally try to find their own way home. Without stopping to rest. White hair was neatly combed and tied back, now began to fall apart and unpalatable. His hands continued to embrace the chicken rice bought to keep warm afternoon. The entire face and his shirt was soaked with sweat. Steps were also already begun to slow down because his legs ache and fatigue.

          Until it grew dark, the grandmother still kept going, trying to get to the house even though his face looks clear, if grandma is very exhausted.

          At the same time, at grandma's house, a married couple new home. They are the parents of the grandchildren grandmother. The mother saw her son who was snacking, while watching TV. Then asked, "why are you snacking, what unfinished grandmother cook?" Her daughter explained, if grandma does not cook today and has been since noon to go to the center of the sale of food but still has not come home until now.

          "What! Grandma had not yet returned from the afternoon ?! "said his father, looking worried and surprised. His son has not had time to say anything, both husband and wife have to go straight again. Intends to look for grandma! Her son was surprised to see both parents suddenly became panicked and went straight again. After a while he realized, if not forgetful grandmother, but already senile, and grandmother must have been lost now. Soon, he started to follow his parents went looking grandmother.

          The trio toured in the center of the city, trying to find a grandmother. And then, both husband and wife heard the sound of a car horn blared. Both of them ran toward the sound of the horn. Once there they saw the grandmother standing dazed in the middle of the road blocking the pace of the cars. Then both attractive grandmother hand and led him to the curb. "What did you do in the middle of the street like this. Mother made us a spectacle everyone ... "snapped her son.
          "Sir, sir ... please take me home, my grandchildren now must have been very hungry. Sorry for my granddaughter, she had not eaten from noon. Please sir ... "because yelled, grandmother increasingly absent-minded and did not remember the son and daughter-own. "Mom! This my son alone! "Shouted his son again. Then the grandmother turned to the law, "Lady, please take me home, I'm waiting for my grandson brought home food." Grandmother pleading tearfully.

          Grandmother heard pleading like that coupled with the condition that such a body grandmother tired. Both tasted very melancholy heart once. Could not hold back tears, becomes law was crying. Cried very sad. Realizing how much love and affection grandmother to her grandson, who is none other than their own daughter.

          Suddenly, from a distance, the faint sound of her grandson called, "Grandma, grandma ..." Grandma looked back, searching for the origin of the sound of his grandson. It was true, grandchildren are not far from there. Behind the dim streetlight, grandson ran to grandma. Glad to see his grandchildren were there, grandma walked toward his grandson with a limp. Although it looks grandmother smiling very happy, but it still looks very clearly tired smile behind it.

          Grandmother hugged her grandchildren. "I'm sorry grandma, grandmother does nothing?" Said his grandson with tears. "Yes, grandma does nothing. This grandmother had traded your favorite chicken rice, let's eat. You must have been hungry. Pity granddaughter grandmother had to starve till the evening. "Said the grandmother, unwrapping the rice and then fed into the mouth of his grandson. Granddaughter kept crying. "Grandma, forgive me, forgive me, Grandma ..." granddaughter continues repeatedly apologized tearfully.

          "Please forgive grandmother yes, you so have to starve to wait too long granny" heard grandmother say so, and look at the condition of the grandmother is so pain is also exhausted. Tears grandson increasingly flowing. Son and daughter-grandmother who saw this incident, also shed tears. Then both walked over to grandma and grandma hug from behind. "Mother, we all love you very much."
MOTHER
By : I Gede Karsa
 
Mother, ...
When the evening was far enthroned
However, Why do ye that wrinkled hand
Still looked up to him toughen
Requesting a drop of dew
Though deserted the more pointed
'' There is no dew I got '' You said.
Humming at midnight
who gets colder

Mother, ...
I could not hold back the tears
When I see you
tears in prayer
'' God give me a drop of morning dew
To quench your thirst my son '' you said.

Mother, ...
Then I realized that big of love for me
That had I wasted
Forgive your son's mother
Which always makes your eyes water dripping
However, I promise will no longer let
The holy water was dripping from your eye lids


Kubutambahan, 13 November 2015


Mother
By : I Gede Karsa

Mother
Forgive your son
which still makes you sweat
Although eager to taste
no longer make such
But, I want mothers to understand
Just happiness mother
The main goal in my life

My mother dear
I am sure that the mother is the greatest power of prayer
and serenading beautiful tone, makes everything I've been through
until now all be very valuable
Doa'mu mother, who guided my life so far
until I could breathe until today

My mother whom I loved
Begin a happy life, because every time
I passed the time with you is my way
trying to make you happy,
trying to make you smile when you are sad

My mother
May God always make way, for this son
Until one day I can reach for the stars
And there we can live happily together, forever.


Kubutambahan, November 2015


38 WORDS MOTIVATION

1.      Changes in life does not guarantee success, but there is no success without change

2.      Life is like riding a bicycle. To stay balanced, then you have to keep pedaling

3.      Life is a process not a destination odyssey

4.      There is no struggle there is no progress

5.      Only the wisest and most ignorant will never change

6.      Not life be easier, but you are growing into stronger

7.      Trust is like paper, once he tangles can not be refined again

8.      The family is not something that is so important, but everything is very important

9.      When we are no longer able to change things, that's the time when we are challenged to change ourselves

10.  When trouble comes, then the family is supporting your first

11.   People who do not understand the meaning of the silence you are the person who will never understand the meaning of your words

12.  My life is my guide toward reality

13.  We live in a rainbow bandage chaos

14.  If you kneel before God then you will stand before man

15.   The most noble way to live wisely in this world is to make ourselves as the happiest people

16.  Remember that the way of life is a step to preserve the identity of each person

17.  Life will bring someone on his chosen path. The right choice will never bring regret

18.  Life is waiting then wait. If the time has arrived, no one is able to change the destiny of life

19.  The greatest happiness in life is doing what other people are saying, "you can not do it"

20.   Struggles that we do today will build the strength we need tomorrow

21.  The error is proof that we are trying

22.  Be sure to first feel the words before you say it

23.  The dream will not be realized if it is not accompanied by action

24.  Life will always interesting at the end, because we have some big plans materialized into a major force

25.  Never give up in life, discover the reason and keep fighting to try

26.  One of the hardest things in life is to start this day with a smile and a new spirit

27.  Never separate the life you are living with a word you say

28.  Circumstances make us change towards a better

29.  I love you more than the number of stars in the sky and the abundance of fish in the sea

30.  The purpose of life is a life that has direction and purpose

31.  What is the meaning of life without a little turbulence?

32.  Optimism is the key to life. If you're expecting evil then he will come, otherwise if you dream of goodness and success then nothing is impossible

33.  Life begins when we get out of our comfort zone

34.  By planning great things, then we have dared to bear liability so great

35.  Let your dreams be greater than your fear

36.  Not that I'm lazy. But it only took a little rest after struggling with the challenges of life

37.  Live wisely without pretense, dependence, and without defeat

38.  Enjoy life today, because yesterday is over and life tomorrow is not something that is promised







KEEP SPIRIT ON YOUR LIFE

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          Two men, both seriously ill, are being cared for in a hospital room. One of them suffered from an illness that required sitting in bed for an hour each afternoon weeks to empty the fluid in his lungs. Incidentally, his bed was in place the only window in the room. While the other man had to lie flat on his back.

           Every day they are conversing for hours. They talked about his wife and family, home, work, their involvement in the army, and the places they've visited during the holidays.

          Every afternoon, when the man whose bed near the window are allowed to sit, he tells of what was visible outside the window to his roommate. For an hour of this, the two men was so happy and excited imagining how vast and beautiful all the colorful activities and beautiful outside.

          "Outside the window looks a garden with a beautiful pond. Ducks and swans swimming-pool is gorgeous, while the children play with the boat toys. Some couples walked hand in the middle of the park which is filled with various flowers berwanakan rainbow. A big old tree decorates The park, far up there looks stunning city skyline. A wonderful evening. "

          The first man to tell a state outside the window with the details, while another man who was lying close my eyes to imagine all the beauty of the scene, his feelings became more calm, in carrying out daily at the hospital. His spirit becomes stronger, increases self-confidence.

          One afternoon another man sitting near the window tells the story of a carnival parade passing by. Although the two men who can not hear the sound of the parade, but he could see it through the eyes of men who first describe it in words beautiful. So it went on, day by day and one week passed.

          One morning, the nurse came in with a basin of warm water for bathing. He found the man lying near the window died peacefully in his sleep. The nurse was saddened and called another nurse to move them to the mortuary. Then the second man asked the nurse so that he could be transferred to a bed near the window.
The nurse was happy to obey his will and to prepare everything. When everything selasai, she left him alone in the room. Slowly and in pain, the man forced himself to get up, he wanted to see the beauty of the outside world through the window.
How glad, finally he can see for yourself and enjoy all the beauty of it. His heart was tense, he slowly stuck his head into the window beside his bed, what's seen it? It turns out that window facing a blank wall !!!

          He cried the nurse and ask what makes a male friend who had died had been recalled as if seeing all the sights are magnificent behind the window.
The nurse replied:
"in fact the man is a blind man could not even see the wall though."
"Perhaps he wants to give the spirit of life" the nurse said


THE END